These 5 couples have walked down the aisle and said “I Do!” I recently asked them what wedding planning advice they would share with couples who are going through their own planning journey and this is what they had to say…
“There are two variables in wedding planning that we typically don’t have control over: money and pleasing everyone. Most of us don’t have unlimited funds to have the wedding of our dreams and often our family all have their own opinions and desires for how they picture it. In the end, you need to do something within your budget that means the most to you as a couple and has the most meaning. THAT you will remember. Some guests will like, some won’t – but that will be the case no matter what. You should be able to look back on your wedding day saying that really represented us well and we loved it.”
-Cynthia and Charles
“Thankfully from our wedding there isn’t one thing I would change. From beginning to end, every decision was made based on what we wanted as a couple for our wedding. We splurged on what we felt was most important and kept it reasonable where we felt mattered the least. The one piece of advice we would pass along is…once you get to your big day, enjoy every moment and don’t let anything get in the way of that. If something doesn’t turn out the way you planned, don’t stress because you (and your wedding planner) are the only one’s who will notice.”
“Our advice would be to not lose sight of what the big day actually is–a day for you, your family and friends to celebrate the beginning of yours and your spouse’s new life together. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the excitement and details of the day, but in the end, it’s all about two people who love each other celebrating a beautiful lifelong union surrounded by their loved ones. Also, keep in mind that you’re not planning a party for yourselves. You’re planning a party to cater to the guest list with little nuances of you as a couple. All you need is great food and great music and the rest of the party will take care of itself!”
-Laurie and Matthew
“We wanted something small and wanted to make sure that everyone at our wedding we knew well. We think it’s important to do what you want for your own wedding and not worry about other people. Also your wedding is one day, the most important thing to worry about is having a happy marriage!”
“Have a realistic budget and stick to it. Enjoy the day because it goes by so fast. Don’t sweat the small stuff.”
-Audrey and Francisco
Thank you to these FABULOUS couples for sharing!